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Saturday, July 7, 2012

Who needs friends when you can blog?


When you wake up in the morning the first thing that can come to some people’s minds are that they need to check their Facebook account, or start updating the world on their twitter account, or turn on their favorite T.V. program, all this might seem like an ordinary day in the life of a person growing up in today’s fast paced technological advanced environment but when did updating a status trump running around outside with our younger generation. More and more kids are turning to social media to express themselves rather than directly expressing themselves face to face with peers.


The article above stresses the importance of face to face communication and how it is the best form of communication. The younger generation today is more used to using cellphones and texting than communicating directly, I have experienced situations personally when I would be in the room with a group of people and two of them would be sitting in the same room texting EACHOTHER! I can’t believe that even when faced with the opportunity to converse face to face some people chose ulterior ways than the basic way they have been taught.

Social media has advanced the way people communicate but it also has taken a very important piece of communication away and that is the direct communication that comes with an in person conversation. If our generation is growing up with the idea that online communication, texting or emailing are better forms of communicating then what will happen in years to come, do we no longer have interviews for job positions? Isn’t meeting someone and talking to them in person a way of measuring a person’s social capabilities as well as their intellectual capabilities. Social media has impacted our day to day lives and also has bridged a gap between a lot of communication issues but youths today still need to be reminded that not all communication of ideas or thoughts needs to be directed to social media outlets, that they can express themselves with one another in person and get the same response if not a better response that is more positive than feedback that is presented online or in an email that’s more impersonal. Maybe if we recognize and use the social learning theory to set an example it could prove to be more responsive, that communication no matter the way is important and direct communication is an even better way to express one’s ideas and thoughts and to get that positive in person feedback is way more gratifying.

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